I didn't intend to 'group' you guys together at all. I was merely referencing the fact that the pair of you offr excellent advice for rebuilding. Albeit from different viewpoints.
That's the only problem with type, there is no intonation and your words can be misinterpreted. Ah well. No harm done.
Pearl,
I have read that book twice, it does seem hard work when you have almost resigned to giving up, but it does show you how dangerous friendship can be in the wrong circumstances. I still have my copy and will keep it to refer to if ever I need.
