Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[glamgirl]

So sorry SC that you are feeling horrible.

I don't want to give any false expectations, but my h said all those similar things, other than move on without him, but gave me the whole you never understood me, you haven't changed, I was unhappy in the m, yada yada yada. It's all pretty much the same, but each with a little different seasonings. Now today, you see how he is acting. You might not have thought he said all those same things a year ago, but he did.

That is why you move on for you SC. He may one day say hey wait a minute SC, what was I thinking, maybe not. I can tell you though my h is looking like he wants to possibly reconcile and my first h from 14 years ago had regrets. I am sure he wished he hadn't thrown it all away back then. You see time changes a persons feelings.

If you don't get back together then maybe you can at least salvage a friendship for years to come for your kids.

I do see you still clinging to your h though. That will only push him further away. I was driving down a street today and remembered over a year ago I bumped into my h and said hey how about getting a bite to eat. He agreed, but didn't look to happy that he bumped into me. He got angry before we even got our food and stormed out of the restaurant and left me standing in shock, so you see SC my h and I have come a long way from those days.

You have to build the friendship back before you could move forward. Hugs!