Thanks TL for the encouragement. Snodderly I will take a look at that thread. Thanks. BM thanks for stopping by.

The last few days have been good interactions with h. Yesterday I brought him dinner and his meds that he left at our home. He was grateful. He even called a few times yesterday and called to say goodnight.

Today I picked him up a nice red power tie. He has an interview tomorrow. Yeah! He should do very well. He was very appreciative. I called while he was car pooling with a co-worker. H put me on speaker and says Glam you can't talk dirty to me so and so will hear. It's as if we have some fantasy sex life.

It used to be grand, but now with h on AD's it's once and awhile. I will be patient since I know that h just doesn't have the desire. Oh well, one step at a time.

Please pray that my h does well on the interview. A new job would certainly take the stress and anxiety off of h's plate.

Thanks all for listening and encouraging me. Yes BM I have come a long way. A mere year ago, h was saying he couldn't see himself ever coming back to the m. We had just started mc and at that time h was saying I am only attending to be able to communicate with Glam about the kids. We weren't going on dates. H was only coming over 1-2 times per week. Never calling me.

So you are right BM, we have come a long way.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"