Jumping here from seperated

[Clayton]

Hey Gypsy,
Partying affects my wallet and once I start....I really don't stop. I tell myself it's justified partly by all the exercise I do....but exercise dosn't help the liver.
Yes, I am getting plenty of attention, mostly from girls I work with. My office has about 1000 employees, so roughly 500 woman work in my office campus.
I think it is my confidence & energy that is getting the attention, not my 6 pack. Only a small amount of people utalize the work gym, so not all that many people really know what I'm like under my clothes.
Strange thing, I'm finding it a lot easier and more fun flirting as a 40yr old than I remember as a 25yr old when I met W. I think it's partly because I'm already established in life and have confidence based on my sucess so far.
I've already met someone I really like. She's a few yrs older then me and already divorced. I think it's still too early for me to get serious with anyone. I'm not planning on really dating until the D is finalized...but you never know what happens in life.
I'm going to keep our house, my retirement and all our savings. I'm not going to poach into her government retirement....so I'm financially really stable.
This could not have turned out better.