I will not tolerate you addressing me in this way. If you wish to discuss this issue further, you will need to treat me with dignity and respect. Unless you can communicate in the proper manner, we will not discuss anything.
Each sentence is picking a fight. You choose how much of her garbage you accept... some, all or none. Just keep your correspondence to the bare facts.. no emotion, no justification.. simple.
As far as the ring goes.. Tell her you're willing to send her a check for $225 for the ring based on the offer you received but that you plan on researching it further. Her choice if she wants to take the money and run or wait it out.
And with texting the person who didn't show.. keep it to five words. Don't provide excuses for them or create apologies. That's their place, not yours.
