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I hate having the woman I love going after me.


This is exactly what I am talking about dude. She isn't going after you, her lawyer is. She is looking for a means to an end. In her mind (which is what it is) her ideal is to get the divorce done. For her this is about getting it done, not going after you.

No, I am not defending her. Merely pointing out the reality of her process. Trust me, if she was going "after you" things would be much tougher. You read FIBs thread right?????

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09