I think you vastly under rate those on your side. I can think of only two on your H's - his mother and the OW......and I'm not sure the OW would be completely on his side.
Saffie, I can always count on you my friend to say the right thing. If I came to England, would I get to meet your kilt man?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon