I am holding firm on my very fair division financing of extracurricular activities. She has not mentioned again so maybe she is accepting her responsibility.
I am a bit concerned now about the retirement division - the last IRA account I am transfering is going to fall short about $9K of the divorce settlement. When the divorce was finalized, there was enough in the SEP IRA's to cover what was agreed upon for X. But the market has tanked quite a bit. I am not sure what to do after this last transfer is done so as to make up the difference.