Ali - sorry to jump in again here - especially on you birthday night...and when you have likely turned in...
Yes! - although 25years, that post was a bit blunt for our sensitive "lets sit down and have a nice cup of tea" ears! But all the same I think you're onto something here...
Like I said above - thing is not to be "obviously" available or willing....?
Ali has done lots over the past few months for HER - not designed or contrived to "win" her ex back - who would hang off a boat in the English Channel for any other reason than for the thrill of it? In Winter???