WP,

Well we were in court today for our reorganization. She is almost 20 minutes late. I look later and she was Myspaceing OMen until 10 minutes before she had to be there.

She hasn't worked for six months and this is what she does ALL day! I am going down financially and she won't even lend a hand it seems.

She told me today to let her go and move on. She will never want to be in a marriage with me again. She has to move out of our home in no less than 60 days and can't support herself. She is thinking of moving in with a friend with two daughter's, my daughter, and three sons. WTF???

Today was one of those pivital moments in a relationship.. At this point I need to protect myself legally and financially. She is making it impossible to take care of my children and I am going to have to cut ties with her while she travels whatever road she needs to go down.. It's sad.. but I always heard that at some point it's time to move on and you just know.

Apparrently today was that day.

It hurts but I can move past this..

V


***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
My sitch