T,

I know you're not needy, that's just how asking makes you look. Gives the impression that H is in control because you're saying "If you say X then I will do Y. But if you say A then I will do B." Best to know what you want and just do it, regardless of how H feels or what H wants.

Working does not count as GAL young lady! \:\) I expect you to put at least one fun activity on your calendar this week! Can you go to lunch with a friend? Or out for happy hour on Friday? Or make plans to see a movie this weekend?

If you love somebody, set them free.
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