She's just mad you are not being all nicey nicey and friendly friendly even though she is doing what she is doing. It's about time she faces some of the consequences of her actions.....her kids' feelings of hurt and anger, the realization that her H won't back her up on having his kids with this OM, her little dream of her wonderful independent life with this new man isn't all a bed of roses. About time. She showed more emotion in that phone call than she has for a year. When she gets mad or cries.....you are affecting her. She needs this. Keep doing it.