I didn't mean to offend you w/my last post. I was merely saying for you to use his A to look at yourself and see if there were things that he felt were driving him away from you.
Again - HIS AFFAIR IS HIS AND ONLY HIS FAULT AND NO FAULT OF YOURS! I can't stress this enough. However, what was it about you that he couldn't handle? What was it about Maria that made him look for greener grass?
As another poster said, you may never get the answers you seek from him, but you can find those answers about yourself.
I'm not blaming you at all, but I am challenging you to use this to critically examine yourself to see what you may have been like for him and then process it.
Maybe you were everything correct and he was simply the wrong fit. If so, then you need to look at "your end" and discover this so you can make sure to have the "right fit" next time.
Maybe there were parts of you that you didn't like and would like to change - not for H, but for you - as you move forward.
That is what I'm saying w/"look at your end of his A." It is an opportunity for some serious reflection to see yourself through his eyes and either embrace you or change that part of you.
This was my intended message before and I'm so sorry it didn't come across correctly.
As for the latest news, I'm sorry he's an idiot who is afraid of his own shadow. He'll regret this in time, but it will be way, way down the road and you will be long gone.
Steel yourself in your decision and move forward.
Even though you didn't feel like it in my last post, I am completely on your side and just trying to push you to be the best you. Maybe my timing wasn't right for the comments I made earlier.
