I think you vastly under rate those on your side. I can think of only two on your H's - his mother and the OW......and I'm not sure the OW would be completely on his side.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
