Don't I wish!! My marriage didn't make it but I didn't find this site until he had already filed and had been out of the house for over a year.
I know I have saved myself and hopefully my kids from a lot of extra heartache that I would have had if I hadn't come here. I was already in individual counseling and that was helping but I felt pretty alone. While it is hard to see so many others face the same stuff, it does help to not have to go it alone.
I also think because I self evaluated a lot, I will do better the next time around.
Stay strong.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory