No, I didn't break down. We had to pick up my daughter from school and take her to the doctor. We got along fine. She didn't bring it up and neither did I. However, inside this has really discouraged me. Even though I knew this was happening, I can't believe that it really did. I'm not angry with her, I'm just really sad that she has done this. I'm staying as upbeat as possible, but I really can't see how we're going to come back from this. If she filed, then she has committed herself to the idea. This is coming from what I know about her, not a general assumption. If she is committed then it is difficult to break her of it.
She said that she told the lawyer to wait 90 days. The lawyer was going to give me a packet with the terms and if I agreed with them I sign them. I told her I didn't want the packet until the end of the 90s. I'm not sure, but that sounds to me like being served. If I am served, then that cuts my time in half and it is most certainly finished. I don't think she understands the "serving" thing, but if she gives me terms to sign, then that to me is being served.
