It still stumps me though as to how he could have acted & said the things he did to someone he loves
I know. I had this convo with an acquaintance going through the same thing today. It's something you may never figure out, and even if you could, it's not relevant to here and now...provided he stays on the straight and narrow. I know it would be nice to wrap everything up with a neat bow and put it away, but it just isn't the way life works.
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he said we're just fine & dandy but then had to add that I needed to "f'ing chill."
Nice. Way to allay your fears. Is this typical? Keep your eyes open hon.