I hate that he's trying to screw you over the money. I still think you need to stand up for your financial future through your lawyer. It's important for you and S12. He's the one who cheated, he's the one who walked away so HE needs to be willing to pay for his freedom! Of course I would defer to the L's opinion on how hard to fight, but don't let him treat you like a doormat because he's threatening you. I understand not wanting to waste any more time and energy on H, but you can do this.
Everyone has their backslide moments. If you felt you needed to get it out then let that be that and don't do it again. I'm saying this out of love. It makes you look needy and weak which we all know you are not. Better to get back to focusing on you and only you.
I speak from experience. When I left for New Year's it was on a great, breezy uninterested note but I blew it with some emotional text messages from the airport. Blech. Set me back a few weeks which doesn't sound like much but they were at a crucial time so I still regret it.
Let's end on a positive note. What are you GAL activities for the rest of the week? If you don't have any lined up yet, get something fun on your calendar!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
