Hello Dear Friends, Thanks for all of your support. I did aske Hope to send me the letters, I was just curious. But, I do agree that even those letters would do nothing to change his behavior. I don't see any hope for our marriage. All I can do right now is to continue to work on myself and think with my head and not my heart.
I attended a reading workshop today. A teacher that teaches at another school withing our district asked me about H. I have known her for several years, she has known H all of his life, they were neighbors growing up. I told her that he continues to pull of his same old stunts with lying and cheating. I said I don't understand why he always tries to pull me back and then does the same old thing over again. She of course said, "He's in it for the money." I told her about his remark that he said,"I know you will go after me with both barrells in the divorce settlement". She replied,"Why wouldn't you? You helped to make him what he is today?":The 10 Worst Excuses for Cheating on Your Wife?"
So as you can see people whose loyalties you think would lie with him take my side. I guess it's hard to take the side of a liar and a cheat.
Hugs, Yoyo
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