It sounds like you have great family and friends. That helps!!

Well.... I don't think NMMNG means you'll be a jerk. I don't think we can change ourselves that much, but I think it can help move a person into a "middle ground." You will probably always be a "nice guy" to a point, but this may help you reach another level where you are learning to set some limits, do a little more for you, speak out more when you perceive a need to, not go so far to try and please people, not allow yourself to be taken advantage of, etc... I see it as a growth thing.

Yes, Clint Eastwood is the coolest! Even now that he's ancient he's still totally HOT!!!

Have a great time tonight! \:\)

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