Well..I suppose I may have to say I went back to day 1..tho I am not sorry and it was a well needed convo. I was driving back from the airport to my house, about 1 1/2 hrs, and hub sent me a random text message about our taxes, and it SOUNDED accusatory and I was just about over it..LOL..so I called him to clarify what he meant..
ANYWAY..we had a long talk about everything..his relationship with OW and that it is serious enough that he wants S12 to meet her at some point..I asked him if he really thinks they are that serious and that he foresees a long time/forever with her because I don't wanna just drag people thru for him otherwise and he said yes..so I told him it was a wait and see on that one.
We talked about the crappy settlement he wanted to give me, he said he would fight anything more than the 1 year of everything and 1 year of just whatever, no more than that..so I dunno that I have recourse really and/or if I honestly WANT to drag it out and fight it..honestly, I'd just like to be divorced today and be done with it all..it's just so ridiculous really that he thinks that's okay and, if that's the person he wants to be, I don't want to be dragging myself and him and our kids thru court and crap, so I have to think on that one and about S12 hanging with OW and her "lovely children"..
Anyway..it was just that kind of discussion, it was crummy for me, there was yelling and crying on my part because the money thing is such a slap in the face that I can't even describe or honestly explain very well..it just is..
But we ended fine and I even got in my question about being 120% done..I told him I was 100% done and that I wanted him to be absolutely sure because I can be 120% done and not look back but 2 months down the road I Don't want to go thru this again and he said no, even if his OW was a mistake he wouldn't go back to what/where he was, and I said I wouldn't either..so I left him on that beach in Florida after all it seems And I told him I deserved better and he agreed that I did..I told him I thought he deserved better than the OW because she's a serial cheater, but that I hoped she wouldn't screw him over and hurt him..
So..anyway..needless to say..LOL..sounds like I'm back to day 1, but I'm totally fine with that
Tawnya
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And I told him I deserved better and he agreed that I did..I told him I thought he deserved better than the OW because she's a serial cheater, but that I hoped she wouldn't screw him over and hurt him..