Thank you both. Yes vickyd you have my H pegged pretty good. I am also a bit hesitant on the whole going dark thing. For one because we have D7 and that makes it a little harder especially with her being heavily involved in girl scouts which H takes her to. That is their thing together but I have to be involved when it comes to what is going on and pickup/dropoff.
I know what you are saying about not staying stagnant. That is where we seem to be. I know you keep suggesting that I do things different but I honestly don't know WHAT to do differently. We do not talk NEAR as much as we were. That is H's doing.
I don't get as much time to show anything with H anymore. I pretty much keep to myself as does he unless it pertains to D7. Last night was the first time he called me at night in a while. I don't even get the morning calls anymore.
WaitingPatiently- I have been praying about this constantly. Trying to find my way with all this. I want to do what is right and I am just not sure what that is. That is why I thought I might start with an e-mail to H. Good idea or no?
