I know she goes to school... I know she sleeps outside of your room. Does she get up and get the kids ready for school, off to the bus/take them to school? Is she home with them after school? Does she handle after school activities (sports practices, music lessons, etc...)? At night, is she involved with their homework? How about if the kids have a game, or an event that you both go to? How is she then? Would she stop for lunch after that with all of you?
How about with you...? What about events/activities that you would normally do/need to do together? Fundraisers/Dinners for school? Dinner w/a couple a your friends that are couples?
Does she still go out on her own? I remember in your original thread you had mentioned she was going out, and staying too late, and you had to set a boundary... Does she still do that?
I re-read everything, and we hear a lot about you and your efforts, but I don't really get her! (Not that anyone will at this point!)
Gosh, wish I was there to take her out, have a girlfriend night, and slap her around a bit! Women are pretty effective with women when it comes to reeling them in, and showing them they are whacked.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
