I say no more questions. It's probably like my situation. My H will say things b/c he KNOW I usually always jump on it, and get offended. Then he'd say You see what I mean, you can never change, You say you will but it's always going to be the same thing.
So basically he might be testing you to see if he wants to give the marriage another try. Then you'd have to decide if YOU want to give it another try. You already know he wants out, don't torture your self by confirming what you already know.
When he made the comment about the house you should have said, it does look like a nice size for 1.5 people, I should look into the price. Me and D would love it there!(Excluding him) Hit him right back where it hurts!
I noticed my H acting slightly different since the last time in Jan when he said the D word again, I had papers printed up with D info, and I handed them to him. I didn't cry or get angry, I just gave it to him and said since you want to get a D maybe you should read this to see what you're going to get yourself into, it's not ez and it won't be cheap for you. And I walked away.
He's noticing I'm not acting needy, or clingy. No more questions. No matter how much it bothers and hurts. Come here to vent.
Agree? No more questions! Don't show him any expectations.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug