K, You probably won't be "done" for a long time. Have no regrets for the love affair of last summer that didn't materialize - it was not the right thing to do in the circumstances - you gave me similar advice to not date. Focus on your well-being and your kids from now on and for a while - they need you and will live their lives by your example and love so this madness does not get repeated in their lives. I hope the madness dies down soon and you have more peace. And if I may say so it does not suck to be anyone - that's a bunch of rude garbage.
