I'm not sure. Maybe really try to imagine how you would act if you really really wanted to dump him BUT absolutely did not want to hurt his feelings because you do still love him. Imagine you've found a new life and new happiness that doesn't include him.....how would you treat him, considering you sincerely want him to be happy too, and you feel bad for leaving him....Maybe if both of us could get in that mind set we could really do some DBing butt kicking.
