Put the phone down. No need to undo any progress you have made. Nothing is going to make a person run faster than someone who is clingy and needy. You would sound like that even if you didn't mean to. Keep talking here, tell us what you would say to him just to get it out.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory