Hi all, I have posted before under emotional state and can't remember what the title to my post was.
But, in summary my husband and I have been separated for three years without a single word from him about relationship. It is like I never existed see him at our daughters house all the time he doesn't speak to me.
He has moved in with an older friend of his . Yesterday I saw him coming out of a coffee shop with the friends daughter. She is a friend of mine. They were behind me and when I turned into my subdivision he just kept going. I don't think they are having an affair. She just bought a house and I am sure he is fixing it and they were out shopping for materials.
But, to me a woman and man should not be out together by themselves. If it were me I would drive myself to the store and meet him there.
I had another friend that also would call him to come over and fix things. Like hang drapes or install things on computer. I told him that I was not comfortable with him going alone. He got upset and told me to call her and tell her that.He just kept answering her requests.
I am so inclined to call him and let him have it. And, to call her also and let her know how I feel about it. I even printed literature about emotional affairs. But, I have laid it aside.
