Here is my list that I'm living by, or trying to: Do not talk about your future. Do not talk about your relationship. Do not be his doormat. Be the woman he fell in love with but with a little mystery mixed in to show him there's more to get to know. Be sexy, grown up and happy. Make him feel like a champion--but don't go over board. Make easy for him to change his mind and save face. Chip away at the bad feelings so he knows the bridge home is not destroyed, but actually very strong. Let him know you are worth the committment. Let him know you are the best option because there's still a lot good in your relationship. Continue to agree with him. Only contact him if you have to and be interesting. Let him do things for you so he feels needed and helpful. Pay attention to him but be curious not examining. Be his FRIEND.
