I didn't come to this site to save myself. I came to save a marriage. I was attracted to this site because it said... The Place Where Marriages Become Stronger and More Committed. It said... It's Never Too Late To Save Your Marriage, etc...
and this is why the vast majority fail....IMO
you were attracted to this site because the webmaster loaded the following owrds into the search engines when he put the site up.."SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE"..so we search ont heinternet..we are brought here..the support is awesome but we just can;t get those words out of our heads..."SAVE OUR MARRIAGE"...that's why we fail..we flounder..we let our emotions control us..we don't detach...
and detachment is the key detachment is the only chance their is IMO..