MB *WANTS* to save her marriage. I don't think she needs to walk away. I'm not saying it won't happen, but it certainly will if she does not get the encouragement to keep going.
It's not over. Pride only hurts for a little while if I'm wrong, but walking away from the marriage will likely hurt for a lifetime. At least if you have to wonder if you did the right thing or not.
GAL - certainly. You deserve it. Walk away? I don't think it's time do you?
first off..you should re-read..I never said for her to walk away.
If you are here to SAVE your M then IMHO that is not what DB'ing is all about..DB'ing is about saving yourself..
People come here just for that..One thing on their mind..to save their M...if you've read the books then you'll see that "changing" is the only possible way that your WAS may come back...if they like the changes they see then they may come back..
it's truly up to them...once you "let go" and "driop the rope" then you'll see it...
until then...The WAS will make you spin..you'll ride the coaster..and they will know it...that's the only "power" they have...that's why they control the sitch...
So AJ...re-read...I never said walk away..I said GAL and move forward...there's a big difference..
