For me at least it came through loud and clear. It's tough when you are very oriented that way. Actually I can't imagine someone not being wired that way.
I have similar issues with that too. I pray that either your wife can finally deal with that or you are able to finally make a decision that leads you to a R that gives you that connection. It's obviously not the only thing to be considered but is a huge part of the overall satisfaction God designed you for.
Keep looking up about it Pup!
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch