I am frustrated, vDad, and thanks for noticing and for asking. As much as I feel that the Retrouvaille weekends are great for MANY couples, for us, it wasn't really what we were needing. We don't have a problem with communication (heck, we could have written each other's dialogue exercises), but rather with the whole intimacy thing. We'd be better off seeing a good sex therapist, or my wife going to a good IC, but she's not going to do either one, so for now we remain "stuck."
It's such a waste of an otherwise great marriage and great friendship, and it just makes me very sad.
