I didn't read any backslide there depending on how far this went..."That if she comes home she will be miserable. I asked her what that means and she says it will be like it always has been. "

It's great she's not giving up going to IC. Just make sure you still give her space, don't push and see what happens.

Good Luck

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."