Thats exactly how my Mum read it Mish! Like the intervening months hadnt happened! Ditto the music.. yonks ago I told him I was enjoying some Rage Against the Machine, but I only had a few tracks (yonks ago) and he has sent me the album !! Hows that for a memory on both counts. Clearly put thought into it.

No, it wouldnt be right, he is a man of integrity.. thats why he walked out when he fancied her I think, he wouldnt have an A, so he left me. Thats why he wouldnt see me when he started dating her.. and it still wouldnt tbe right, but then.. he adds on the end "unfortunately !" so he is REGRETFULL that its not right and he cant come. I just dont get why he is STILL putting her first, eventhough he has supposedly made the decision to break up with her !??? Perhaps he has changed his mind again. Guess I will have to quiz BMF later, although whatever I say will get back to ex.. BMF is clearly totally indiscreet !!