Just keep swimming...PH #5

[pearlharbr]

I hear what you're saying JD. Part of me just wants to spell it out for him and let him take it or leave it. But I did tell him on freedom day that I would be willing to work on anything and have him back in the house if he weren't having an affair. He's smart enough to know that ending things with OW is a prerequisite for coming back. If I have to spell it out for him I would feel like he's only doing what I ask and not doing it because he wants to. Not good enough.