Don't let him blame you Abby. He did this, not you. You did not *force* him to this by not initiating over the years. If you never turned him down, he has nothing to complain about.
On the flip side, if you want this to work out long term, you are going to have to be capable of forgiveness at some point.
Thinking of you..
SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
