I don't mean to be disrespectful and so I hope you will take my comment in the right way. I think Yoyo has gone beyond trying to get a reaction from her H and trying to reconcile. I think she is heading down the D road and going for her fair share.
Sara {{hugs}}} absolutely none taken. I agree that Yoyo has had a change of heart but I am responding to an e-mail she sent me. I don't want to "beat a dead dog" if D is what she wants everyone here support her totally. Just wanted to give her info as promised.
Originally Posted By: saffie
I also agree that she has NO REASON at all to apologise to her virtual friends, and I for one would love it if she came over to England for a visit. You are welcome to stay any time Yoyo.
Yoyo, look at all the travel offers you have gotten! I am on the coastline of Tx and live on an island. The margaritas are waiting! Also take up Saffie's offer. I have been to England many times. London is wonderful. Saffie I have a SIL that lives in St. Albans and H's relatives in Scotland.
Originally Posted By: saffie
Yoyo, protect yourself and don't be sucked in again by him. Harness that anger and use it constructively.
We support you on whatever you chose. And I know you do the same for us. You are in my prayers.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Hello Dear Friends, Thanks for all of your support. I did aske Hope to send me the letters, I was just curious. But, I do agree that even those letters would do nothing to change his behavior. I don't see any hope for our marriage. All I can do right now is to continue to work on myself and think with my head and not my heart.
I attended a reading workshop today. A teacher that teaches at another school withing our district asked me about H. I have known her for several years, she has known H all of his life, they were neighbors growing up. I told her that he continues to pull of his same old stunts with lying and cheating. I said I don't understand why he always tries to pull me back and then does the same old thing over again. She of course said, "He's in it for the money." I told her about his remark that he said,"I know you will go after me with both barrells in the divorce settlement". She replied,"Why wouldn't you? You helped to make him what he is today?":The 10 Worst Excuses for Cheating on Your Wife?"
So as you can see people whose loyalties you think would lie with him take my side. I guess it's hard to take the side of a liar and a cheat.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I think you vastly under rate those on your side. I can think of only two on your H's - his mother and the OW......and I'm not sure the OW would be completely on his side.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
As a teacher I would have thought that you could already read.....Arkansas I guess.
Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
Hello Dear Friends, I don't see any hope for our marriage. All I can do right now is to continue to work on myself and think with my head and not my heart.
Sad, but we all get to this conclusion in our own time. You will do fine.....
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
Yoyo, you have always had the respect of your friends and community. Hold your head high. Your H will get what he deserves -- the OW and then lo and behold discover that is not what he wanted.
You are the only one who knows when it is time to drop the rope. No one could have done a better DB than you. My prayers are with you.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
