I'm no expert on the issue. My marriage was saved by just 2 things: love and the grace of God. My W and I have been very happily back together since early Feb. No issues or bumps. She continues to say that what brought her back was the way I refused to give up on her and the way I continued to love her even when she wasn't loving me back. She also has a relationship with God and she and I both continually prayed throughout our ordeal. This may sound trite, but the night before my W came back to me I prayed and said to God that I believed he would heal my marriage. I had said that many times before, but that was the first night that I actually believed it. Continue to love your wife. Find ways to show her love without being lovey. In other words, don't buy gifts, try to go out on dates, or call her honey, but be there for her, listen to her, do small things that she would recognize as your love for her. Also, PRAY! I don't know your beliefs, but I know that whether or not you believe God does exist and he wants us to reach out to him in prayer. Keep your head. You seem like a good man, I wish you the best! WP
