So in the "what I do" catagory. Also due to the fact I am weary of confronting as it has had the opposite effect, where do I go now with the doing part?
She has literally convinced herself she is "D" at this point (Myspace, emails, ect.). It feels like I have little choice but to GAL, go with GOD, and be open to her as she travels this road. If asked in conversation, emphasize I am not OK with all of the activities, but not focus on them?
I have been up and down with her emotionally which she didn't like. I definately need to be more even keel when conversing with her and upbeat. She told me yesterday that she just wants to "be" for awhile. She told me she gave me my space when I was going through my junk and no one/me wants to let her have the same space. I just listened to that one...
The doing part has me baffled right now. I do think that regardless on what she does I need to work on my life specifically and worry less about what she is doing. Detach more so I can function again and heal..
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Last edited by Vdad; 03/10/0903:32 PM.
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Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
