Just realized my last post sounded like I was giving up. I'm not, I'm just trying to figure out my next move.

I hope that giving her the custody agreement to make her feel "enabled" to leave will be the right thing.

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13