I agree, but I think I need to stay away from confronting her regarding any of her new "friends". All it does it set her mind on pursuing it more as it is taken as control.
She knows I can't stand all of this "friend" activity. I have been clear on all of it. However I think a 180 for me now is to back off and see if she can work through this herself. At the same time if I can start to rebuild our connection as friends it may bear some fruit.
I will keep everyone updated as we amble on. We actually have an appointment today together to finish some finacial stuff and are going to sit down after.
Any suggestions for this in terms of how to interact?
V
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
