Wow Kass. I am beginning to think this is a common theme with A's. They get people to do things and manage thier lives where they cannot. I learned in Alanon they are master manipulators to survive. My exh has people doing everything for him as well. His exsil pays his bills, he works for his exinlaws. If he behaved the way he has with his drinking with anyone else he wouldn't have a job.
How are you today?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
