Do you think I should do the same in my situation - ask her to leave? She's not dating anyone else and in my case I would want her to take the kids. I know she wants them and also feel its would be more stable if they didn't have to keep moving back and forth. I know she would also be a much more nuturing and caring parent - which is part of our problem with the relationship, I did not nuture/care for it enough by showing it. I would want very liberal visitation though (my lawyer is drawing up a proposal). I thought about handing it to her and tell her that I don't want her to feel like she has to stay just because of the kids.
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
