We are communicating. We even talk about what brought us here. Her message about the M being over comes out fairly clearly. It's the "other" comments such as "I'm not ready for that" or when she gets very emotional about her pain that confuse me. She has also said things like "you don't want me with where I'm at".
She is making a lot of male friends right now and going out frequently with GF's.
The friendlier I make it the more responsive she is. Maybe this is normalizing for her. However there seems to be a lot of buried emotion and feelings for me in there. My thoughts are if I ever want to reconcile with her it will require more patience than I've ever shown in my life.
Finding the right combination of dim/dark but allowing her to see the real change in me is the difficult part...
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
