I just can't seem to accept this

[saffie]

Regrets,

Firstly, do you expect him to tell you the truth? I wouldn't have thought so.

secondly, I am for outing A's and if you know who the woman is it shouldn't take much to find out who her H is and put him in the know. I think it unlikely that she will up and leave her H as she has a child to consider. Also, I would contend that her H has a right to know what is going on. You may find out he already knows.

I was the last out of the four to find out that an A was going on between my H and OW and it was once I found out the whole thing finished.

Your H is being horrid to you because he is under the influence of the high one gets from endorphins when you meet someone new you are attracted to. he is re writing history between yourself and him.

Protect yourself. No-one who is just being a supportive friend to someone texts as much as you say they do and your H staying out at all hours is extremely suspicious. Personally I think you should treat this as a full blown physical A.

Do you want to keep your H and your M in that case or not? If you do you need to break up the A and work on your R with your H. Otherwise go find a good lawyer. In the UK you do not get more in the settlement for infidelity.

Forget the MLC stuff, this sounds just like an H who is having an A.

BTW, stop slapping him and being so abusive towards him. I know you are cross but you are driving him into the arms of the OW and just proving to your H that he is right to leave you. Take the high road.