YR....I don't really see my H ever being where your H was...he's so sure of what he's doing...and I believe him....I am at the point though that I'm not caring much...let him twirl in the wind...it will catch up eventually....and besides, he's been with his OW for 2 years now that I know of....they appear to be moving in the right direction....she's his green grass....LOL....

Of course, my D16, swears he's not happy....she doesn't care what he tells us....he can't even admit he's wrong....funny how a 16 YR OLD knows more than H....she just keeps saying, "it's not my dad, I don't know who he is"... \:\(

I'm watching, not talking R talk, saying anything like I miss him, etc....hard but I'm doing it..

OH, my H only goes as far as the foyer now...he used to come all the way in the house but now no further than the foyer....he's afraid...afraid he'll feel he's missing out...that's what I think anyway, and really I guess that's not worth much...


Last edited by Treese; 03/10/09 02:15 PM.
Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity