Me and Sandi said the same thing. It's time for tough loving. I feel the same way about D threats you do, that is why I was hesitant to push that way the last month. In my head, you dont play with such serious issues. BUT, in your case -and possibly in mine too although I think I am over that even- it could really shift the power in your M. I think she is so sure you will not force to D that she is testing th waters confident that a last moment "change of heart" of hers would extend her broom to "play". More and more, again and again until you step your foot down.

In my head, and looking at this as a woman and not as your friend, she needs to see a determined Lan. Set boundaries, make consequences known and be ready to enforce them. Difficult I know. Have that talk and see where it leads you. You cant fight a liar, I know.
K

That's my take of course. Feel free to ignore and flush... \:\)


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Reconc.November 2009