I understand this baby thing is getting to you. I would have a very hard time too. Try and remember not to build this fantasy up in your head of what their life is like. You have no idea and most likely its not all that great.

Don't look at the FB, it does only hurt you...says the queen of drive by's \:\) I know what that temptation is like. I fight it everyday. But when I do driveby and OW's car is at his house I end up feeling much worse.

Agreed with ST on the texts. Keep them simple and business like. You know OW is probably reading them as well and sees that you are still hanging on. Once you back off and smile and hand your pathetic H over to her, she will realize she got the booby prize! He may not be as desirable to her if there is no competition.

Hang in there. If you want to come up here for the weekend just to get away you are more than welcome!!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!