Thought I'd check and see how you're doing. We communicated some when you first came to the DB forums, several weeks ago. I was concerned about your situation and thought I'd check in.
But I see you've shut down the old threads, so I can't follow what's happened. (And maybe you'd prefer if I erased my memory of those posts as well.)
I hope things are going well for you. But it sounds like maybe nothing much has changed with your husband?
Sounds like you've found some good friends on the forums and you're sharing lots about your lives/thoughts/desires/etc. Good for you.
I wish you well.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R